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Ideas for Success
for Members, Clubs, and Districts
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Built to Last -
Ten Ideas for Chartering Strong Clubs
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Provide training to Club sponsors and
Club mentors.
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Have two trained mentors assigned to
assist the Club for a minimum of six months, but longer if possible.
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Get every Club Officer position filled.
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Provide training for every Club
Officer. Do this very soon after the Club has chartered. Don't wait
for the next round of TLIs or District Club Officer training.
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If it's a company Club, get the support
of the top officers of the company. Invite them to special Club
meetings. Invite them to address the Club members.
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The Club mentors should attend Club
Executive Committee meetings and educate the Club Officers on the
mission of the Club and how to effectively achieve it.
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Focus on the Club running great
educational meetings and the members having fun!
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Ask the Area Governor of that Club to
pay special attention to newly chartered Clubs and visit them as often
as possible.
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Encourage the Club Officers to watch
out for potential leaders among the members and nurture them in to
leadership roles.
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Strongly encourage the Club's
members to get to know other Toastmasters in the District. Invite them
to attend the District Conferences and Area and Division Speech
Contests.
Tips on How to Strengthen
Low Membership Clubs
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Find out whether there are any members
who really want the Club to survive. If the answer is "no,"
don't force your solutions on them. If the answer is "yes,"
then the Club can be saved.
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Discuss with the Club Officers the
reasons for the low membership. If any problem can be fixed easily, do
it. E.g., Club meets at an inconvenient time or place.
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Ask the Club Officers whether they
would be interested in getting the aid of a Club Specialist. If they
are open to the idea, then ask the District Governor to appoint a Club
Specialist for that Club.
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Remind the Club Officers that the best
membership-building tool is an excellent Club meeting. Offer help to
the VPE to improve the quality of the meetings.
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Educate the Club Officers on the value
and benefits of using the Distinguished Club Plan (DCP).
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Ask the Club Officers to set a Club
goal for the DCP.
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Challenge the Club and especially the
Club President and other officers to implement the mission of the
Toastmasters Club.
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Ask the Area Governor to pay special
attention to that Club and visit it often.
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If any of the Club Officers have not
been trained, arrange for that training to be given, regardless of the
time of the year.
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Inform the Club Officers about the
Speechcraft program and how it can bring in new members and funds for
the Club.
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The LGM or the DG could telephone the
Club President to encourage him or her.
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If the membership very low, request
Toastmasters from local Clubs to attend the Club meetings and even
take on roles at the meeting.
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Make sure the Club President is aware
of the importance of setting a good tone for the meeting and the
importance of a positive Club culture.
Seven Tips on How to Collect Semi-annual
Dues On Time
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Educate the Club treasurer and the Club
president on procedures to follow when semi-annual dues need to be
collected and submitted. This should be covered at Club Officer
training. Explain to them why it is important to the Club members that
the Club remains in good standing with TI.
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Identify those Club treasurers and
presidents who did not receive training. Assign their Area Governor to
train those untrained officers, making sure that the why and how of
collecting and submitting the dues & member list are covered.
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Three months before dues are due, make
a list of all Clubs that are currently in arrears on their last dues
payment. One of the Top Three, preferably the LGM, should call the
Club president and help him or her to develop and implement a plan to
get their dues paid. Follow-up in a couple of weeks to see what has
been done.
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Appoint a Semi-annual Dues Coordinator
and clearly explain that person's responsibilities and authority to
Division Governors and Area Governors. This person's job is to: (1)
work with Area and Division Governors to help and encourage Clubs to
collect their semi-annual dues and submit them on time; (2) to
telephone presidents and treasurers of delinquent Clubs, reminding
them of late dues, and suggesting actions they can take to collect and
submit the dues so that their Club will not be delinquent. The bottom
line is that the semi-annual dues are submitted for EVERY Club.
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Three months before the dues are due,
the LGM or Semi-annual Dues Coordinator telephones the presidents of
all Clubs that habitually pay their dues late. Ask them what
procedures they will follow to ensure that this year, they will
collect and submit their dues on time. Follow-up with an e-mail or
letter outlining what was discussed and agreed to during that
conversation.
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Some corporations pay the dues of
members of their corporate Club. Since the check writing and mailing
is left to the corporation, there can be a delay in getting the check
mailed to TI on time to meet the deadline. In such cases, have the
Club treasurer or president submit the request to the corporation far
in enough in advance that the deadline is met.
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A few weeks prior to the start of the
semi-annual dues collection period, send out a newsletter or flyer or
e-mail announcement reminding Club presidents and treasurers of the
semi-annual dues deadline. Ask Area Governors to mention the
semi-annual dues during their Club visits and chats with Club
Officers.
Dilip's Dozen:
Twelve Ways to Encourage Members
to Present Manual Speeches
(How Clubs Can Help Members Achieve Their CTM
& ATM)
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Remind the VPE of each Club to take a
survey of the interests and needs of their Club members. Find out why
members joined and what they want out of their Toastmasters
experience. According to surveys done by WHQ, most members say that
they joined in order to become more effective and confident speakers.
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Based on the above survey, encourage
the VPE of each Club to convey to the Club members the link between
giving manual speeches and reaching their personal goals. The VPE
could give a speech about this in the Club and also follow-up with
telephone calls to individual members.
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Encourage every Club to establish a
Mentoring program for the inexperienced members. Assign experienced,
knowledgeable, and caring members to mentor new members through their
first few speeches. This one-to-one attention will help many new
members overcome their jitters and get a good start in speaking.
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Reward and recognize members who give
manual speeches. Examples are: standing ovations for ice breaker
speeches; positive comments given informally to speakers by
experienced Toastmasters during a break or at the end of the meeting;
hand written notes of compliments passed to the speaker after their
speech, etc. People tend to want to repeat the things that get
immediate positive feedback.
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When a member completes their CTM, ATM,
-B, -S, -G, or DTM, encourage every Club to hold a ceremony to honor
the achiever.
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Print the name of every person who
achieves the CTM or any ATM or DTM on the District Newsletter and any
electronic news. Also print the name of the Club AND the name of the
Club President. People like to be acknowledged and honored.
Toastmasters who read this will want to be honored too, and they will
be motivated to do what it takes to be recognized.
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Sell every Club president on the
benefits of using the Distinguished Club Program (DCP).
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Same as #6 above, recognize and honor
every Club that progresses toward achieving their goals on the DCP.
Always include the name of the Club President.
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The LGET, or someone appointed by the
LGET, write an article directed toward all the members of the District
who have not yet achieved their CTM. Post this on the District web
site and also include it in the District Newsletter. The article could
include these topics:
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How the Communication &
Leadership Program manual is designed to help them reach their
goals of becoming more effective, confident speakers.
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How they can go about completing
the C & L manual, one speech at a time.
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How to pick topics
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How to set a time table to achieve
the CTM
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How to pick a mentor and ask for
one-on-one help
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How to practice and prepare for a
manual speech
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How to get the most out of the
evaluations they receive so that they improve with every speech.
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Publicize the above article via
every medium available: telephone calls or e-mails to Division
Governors, Area Governors, Club Presidents, VPEs; a flyer e-mailed or
faxed and posted at Area, Division and District functions; District
Executive Committee Meetings, TLIs and Club Officer Training meetings,
etc.
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Ask every Area Governor to talk
up manual speeches and completions during Club visits and
conversations with Club Presidents.
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Make it clear in your
communications that non-manual speeches are detrimental to members'
progress and Clubs achieving their mission. Some reasons why
non-manual speeches should be discouraged are that they: (1) have no
guide or structure given for the speaker; (2) have no evaluation
criteria for the evaluator; (3) rob the Club program of a manual
speech that could have been given during that time slot and thus the
advancement of a member toward their CTM or ATM; (4) usually have no
specific objectives on which the audience can focus; (5) encourage
impressionable members to pay less attention to the professionally
prepared C & L manual and Advanced C & L manuals when planning
and preparing their speeches.
For members who have completed their CTM, we have 15 advanced manuals
which can be used for almost every conceivable type of speech.
Publicize these manuals. Better yet, have them on display at Club
meetings.
Eight
Steps to Distinguished Results
Dilip R. Abayasekara, DTM, AS
The Buddhist doctrine espouses eight steps to attaining enlightenment.
This is called the 'Eightfold Path.' I have discovered eight steps that
are not quite so spiritual but that are extremely practical in giving
Toastmaster Leaders a path to follow to achieve their short term
enlightenment - Distinguished District! Here they are with the hope that
you apply them on your journey of success.
Step 1: KNOW YOUR GOALS
Know exactly what you want to achieve. If you don't' know, find out what's
needed to excel in your position. Do you know the specific numbers for
your District's critical success factors? Do you know exactly how your
team members want to be treated? Don't forget this fifth factor in the
'High Five'! As the Cheshire cat said to Alice in Wonderland, "If you
don't know where you are going, any road will take you there!"
Know exactly where you want to go.
Step 2: WRITE DOWN YOUR GOALS
Write down exactly what you want to achieve. I don't know why this works,
but it is a vital step. Write down the critical success factor numbers you
want to hit by the end of June. Also write down a description of the
quality of the relationship you want to have with each of your team
members. I believing this writing step so much that I carry a little card
in my wallet in which I have written my personal mission statement.
Step 3: COMMIT TO YOUR GOALS
Everyday, look at your written statement and commit to your goals. Let
your commitment sink in to the deepest recesses of your mind. Visualize
success. Bring as many of your senses in to play as possible in this
process. For example, in your imagination, see, hear and feel the success
you desire. Delete the word "try" from the vocabulary of your
mind. Instead, just 'know' that you will attain your goals.
Step 4: KNOW WHERE YOU ARE
Analyze the results you have obtained at present. Determine how far
you have to go to reach your goals. Ask yourself what the obstacles are to
reaching those goals. Sometimes we have imaginary obstacles. Get serious
here; strip away rationalizations. Be honest with yourself.
Step 5: IDENTIFY AND PRIORITIZE CHALLENGES
The job you have to do may seem overwhelming. Break it down in to
small tasks. Now the job will seem doable. Create a priority list of what
you need to accomplish in order to reach your goals within the time frame
you have.
Step 6: GET TO KNOW THE PLAYERS - IT'S A RELATIONSHIP BUSINESS!
Every business, especially Toastmasters, is a relationship business.
You will not be able to do everything you have to accomplish by yourself.
You need other people. You know that by now! As far as possible, find out
the human side of those you serve (District leaders, Club officers, etc.),
find out about their joys, fears, pains, frustrations, desires. Build
bridges of mutual respect. Everyone doesn't have to like you to get the
job done, but it is important that your team members respect your
integrity and commitment to those you serve and work with.
Step 7: PREPARE A STRATEGY
In order to reach your goals from where you are, you need a game plan,
a strategy. Based on steps 4, 5, and 6, you are now in a position to
prepare a strategy based on knowledge. The strategy is the plan to take
you from where you are to where you want to be. Write this down clearly,
step by step. As far as possible, get your team members involved in this.
Step 8: TAKE ACTION!!!
General Douglas McArthur said, "There is no substitute for
victory." An effective Toastmaster leader says, "There is no
substitute for action!" Now that you have clearly defined goals and a
strategy to achieve them, don't take action in baby steps. Take massive
action! It is much easier to achieve success with a massive dose of action
rather than by taking small steps every now and then.
So dear District leader, I hope you will find this eight-step path a
useful guide to propel you to District and personal success. May you
attain your Toastmasters 'nirvana' (heaven)!
Don't
Try to Fill a Holey Pitcher or
Why Clubs Fail and How They Can Rebuild
Dilip R. Abayasekara, DTM, AS
The major challenge that many District Leaders face has to do with meeting
marketing goals - Club goal and percap goal. Look at this critically. The
District brings in the new Clubs, BUT the Clubs bring in the new members
and sustain the present members. If you look beneath the surface, what
that means is if Clubs live up to their mission, members will be
growing and achieving their goals, educational goals will be being met,
every Club will be adding to their membership, and loss of Clubs will be
minimized!
The bottom line is - if most of the Clubs in your District are
successful, you will easily exceed your educational goals and find it easy
to meet your marketing goals!!!
Trying to charter new Clubs while not educating Clubs on how they can
become successful is like trying to fill up a pitcher when the pitcher has
a hole in its bottom!
Sure, some Club loss is inevitable. Some companies go out of business or
move. There are some things we cannot control. But most other reasons for
Club failure can be avoided. If Club and District leaders know why Clubs
fail, they can prevent failure by spotting these problems and taking
actions right away. I hope that the ideas below will help you and your
Clubs find renewal, insights, and strength.
TEN
MAJOR REASONS WHY CLUBS FAIL
1. Weak Leadership
A. Club President
(a) No vision; not trained; poor
leadership skills; lack of service orientation.
B. Other Officers
(b) Not trained; little accountability
to members.
2. The Club Depends on Just one or Two
Members to Keep it Going
A. If this key member leaves, there are
no leaders within the Club to give it direction.
3. The Club Leaders Don't Use the
Distinguished Club Program (DCP)
A. They are not educated about the DCP
and/or
B. They don't buy in to the value of the
DCP and/or
C. The District Leaders don't talk up the
value of the DCP.
4. Lack of knowledge and lack of
mentoring
A. No knowledge about how to do the
basics for effective communication, leadership, and meeting management.
B. Club lacks experienced, knowledgeable
members (or they are unavailable) to guide, mentor, and act as role
models for the less experienced members.
C. Club leaders and members are unaware
of the resources that are available to help them - Area Governor,
Division Governor, Materials from WHQ, etc.
5. Attitudinal Barriers of Club Leaders
A. Club leaders foster a feeling that the
Club is an island unto itself.
B. Club leaders view the Area Governor
visits as interference instead of support, encouragement, and help.
6. Untrained or Uncommitted Area
Governor or Lack of an Area Governor
7. Weak Educational Program.
A. VPE is unaware of Club educational
standards, OR doesn't aspire to challenge the members live up to these
standards.
B. VPE lacks a service orientation.
C. Members are not surveyed.
D. As a result of A above, manual
speeches are only an option. This slows the educational progress of the
members.
E. Poor meeting planning.
F. Poor delegation of duties.
G. Poor follow-up.
H. New members are given meeting
functions to perform without adequate mentoring or guidance (#2 above).
I. No educational sessions involving
Better Club Series, Successful Speaker series, Leadership Excellence
Series, Success/Communication, or Success/Leadership are conducted for
the Club members.
J. Educational achievements are not
recognized or praised.
K. Members are not addressed by their
educational designations.
L. Members don't wear TM badges or pins.
8. Relationship Problems
A. Veteran Toastmaster/s forget the
mission of the Club and dictate standards to other members.
B. Some Toastmaster members form cliques.
C. As a result of #7 I above, evaluations
are poor quality.
(a) "Brickbat" evaluations
discourage members;
(b) "whitewash" evaluations
don't help members grow.
9. Poor Guest relations and Little or No
Emphasis on Growing the Membership
A. Due to lack of training or unsuitable
dispositions, the President, VPM, Sergeant-at-Arms and others don't
greet and treat guests properly.
B. No guest book; no follow-up to guests'
visits.
C. No/weak membership drive.
D. No new member inductions.
10. Meeting Location and/or Time is
Inconvenient to Many Members.
A. Club leadership doesn't seek to
address this issue.
SIX
SPECIFIC ACTIONS LOW MEMBER CLUBS CAN TAKE TO
REBUILD THEMSELVES
The six steps described below are
sequential because they build one on another. These steps are based on
personal experience. In one case, a Club that had a membership of 8 with
only 3 active members began to practice these strategies. In a 12 month
time period it grew to 39 members, #1 in the District and #3 in the world.
It can be done!
1. Club Leaders Catch the Vision!
Important steps to this:
(1) Club Officers get trained.
(2) Understand the mission of the
Toastmasters Club.
(3) Understand the elements of effective
leadership - this is especially important for the President and VPE.
(4) Understand why people join
Toastmasters, why people stay in Toastmasters, why people leave
Toastmasters.
(5) Be exposed to knowledgeable, inspired
and inspiring Toastmasters.
2. Become Aware of the Resources
Available to Help Rebuild the Club and Call on Them
(1) Other Toastmasters
Area Governor, other experienced and caring Toastmasters, nearby strong
Clubs, Club Specialist, if appropriate.
(2) Resources from WHQ
'How to Rebuild a Toastmasters Club' booklet, Better Club series,
Leadership Excellence series, Success/Leadership, Success/Communication,
especially Moments of Truth and the Art of Effective Evaluation.
3. Embrace the Mission Statement of the
Club
(1) Begins with the President and VPE,
and then the rest of the Executive Committee.
(2) The Club mission statement is shared
with the members of the Club.
(3) The mission statement is lived by
example by the Club officers.
4. Create a Vision of Success for the
Club and Use the DCP
(1) Begins with the Executive Committee
and then is transferred to the rest of the members.
(2) Survey the needs and desires of the
members.
(3) Set up educational program to meet
the needs of the members.
(4) Set DCP goals and strategies to
achieve them.
(5) Get members' buy-in for a strong,
vibrant Club.
5. Track and Communicate Progress
(1) Track individual members' educational
progress and communicate this to the rest of the Club members. (Use wall
charts, newsletters, e-mail, etc.).
(2) Track and communicate Club's progress
toward its DCP goals. (Celebrate as each goal is reached!).
(3) Engage in other tracking and
communicating too, such as Club Toastmaster of the year award.
6. Create a Winning Club Culture
(1) Make consistent educational
excellence a standard expectation.
(2) Build and maintain a strong mentoring
program.
(3) Build and maintain professional
meeting standards (mentoring will be required here).
(4) Have fellowship and fun!
(5) Have a strong public relations and
membership building emphasis.
(6) Recognize and show appreciation to
members.
(7) Maintain administrative standards
(dues collection, Club Officer list, etc.)
(8) Become active in Area, Division, and
District activities and beyond.
FOUR
EFFECTIVE METHODS FOR COMMUNICATING THE ABOVE
INFORMATION TO LOW MEMBER CLUBS
1. Area Governor
The most effective communication is usually
face-to-face. The Area Governor (AG) is the main connection between the
District and the Club. The AG is in a unique position to counsel,
encourage, and guide the Club officers of low member Clubs in his/her
Area. Besides Club visits, Area Council meetings could also be used for
this purpose.
2. Club Officer Training Functions and Other Educational Functions
Just as TI provides special assistance to struggling Districts, the
District could make it a point to have special educational functions for
members of low member Clubs. In the event that members of such Clubs don't
attend these functions (as is usually the case), the AGs who have such
Clubs in their Areas could get special training on rebuilding low-member
Clubs and how best to communicate this information to those Clubs.
3. Communications from the Top Three Officers
Encouraging, Helpful, and Positive Telephone Calls and Other Contacts
to the Club President from the District Governor or Lt. Governors
4. Consistent Communication Using Every Available Method
Consistently Spread This Information in the District Bulletin, E-mail
News, Area & Division Council Meetings, and District Executive
Committee Meetings.
I hope that you found this article helpful.
Please share it with the Clubs in your District as well as your Area
Governors and Division Governors. Let's make that 'holy' pitcher
'whole'…and then let's fill it to the brim!
TRAINING SKITS
FOR HIGHLY EFFECTIVE AREA GOVERNOR CLUB VISITS
Dilip R. Abayasekara, DTM, AS
Make it Easy for People to Learn
Have you sometimes wondered why some of your Area Governors don't make
the most of their Club visits? The reason may be that they have not fully
understood how to achieve a good Club visit. Do use the Area Governor
training materials provided to you from WHQ. This is supplementary
material.
The reason why the following skits have been found to be a great learning
aid is because of the way people learn and remember. People who are
visually oriented can usually learn a procedure by reading a manual.
However, those who learn more easily by hands-on applications and by
listening will learn more readily with demonstrations. Also, a
demonstration is more active, raises the energy level, and captures the
audience's interest.
These Three Skits Cover the Gamut of Quality
Following are three skits that illustrate three levels of competency
for an Area Governor visit. Skit #1 shows what a very ineffective Area
Governor visit is like. Skit #2 demonstrates a passable Area Governor
visit that still could be improved further. Skit #3 illustrates an
excellent Area Governor visit.
Getting the Most from these Skits
To get the most from this training exercise, immediately after all the
skits have been presented, ask the audience leading questions and let them
discover the ingredients in a successful Area Governor Club visit. Sample
questions are given at the end of this article.
The following is written in a format suitable for eliciting volunteers
from your audience to play the roles that are described. Prepare a
sufficient number of copies of the script. In advance of the training
session, find the right people for the right roles in the skits. Fill in
the blanks in the scripts with the names of the actors. Have each
participant read their portion out loud at the appropriate time, so that
the audience can follow along. I recommend that one person take
responsibility to keep everybody organized and give cues to them to speak
their parts at the right time, if necessary. The parts that are in bold
are to be read out loud by the narrator. This is a lot of fun. Go with
the flow. This is learning by doing!
SKIT #1: Clueless Cleo
Area Governor #1 (The following is based
upon a real experience that the author had)
Actors:
Scene: The Club meeting is about to
begin. A "stranger" (actually the Area Governor) walks in
hurriedly.
Sergeant-at-Arms: "Hello! Welcome to the Pitter Patter
Toastmasters Club! Glad to have you with us. Is this your first visit to a
Toastmasters Club?"
Area Governor: "No, no. I'm the Area Governor. I need to speak
with your Club President. Can you point him out to me?"
Sergeant-at Arms: "Sure. Let me introduce you to him."
The Sergeant-at-Arms introduces the Area Governor to the Club
President.
Area Governor: "I meant to call you earlier, but just got too
busy. I'm your Area Governor. My name is __________________________
(insert name of actor). I'm here to visit your Club and complete my report
to the District."
President: "Oh? Are we supposed to do anything special?"
Area Governor: "No".
The meeting begins. The Club president introduces the Area Governor to
the Club members. The meeting proceeds in the usual manner.
Just before the evaluations are to begin, the Area Governor speaks up:
Area Governor: "Excuse me, Mr. President. I have a report to
write and so, if you don't mind, I'd like to ask a few questions in case
we run late."
President: "Oh? I guess that's OK."
Area Governor: "Thank you. The first question - how many
members does your Club have?
President: "Well…I think we have around 15 members."
Area Governor: "Down to 15?? Hmm. Do you have a VPM? Anyway,
next question - How many members do you have who are working towards
completing their CTM?"
Meanwhile, the club members are getting restless.
President: "I'm not quite sure. Let me ask my VPE. Helen
(looks at VPE), what's the number?
VPE: "We have two."
Area Governor: "Two?"
At this time, the VPM breaks into the conversation very agitatedly.
VPM: (In an angry tone of voice) "This is a District audit,
isn't it? You are auditing us, aren't you?
Area Governor: " Uh. I wouldn't call this an audit,
but…"(gets cut off by a club member)
Club Member: "Why do we have to go through all this
administrative stuff during the meeting? I came here to learn something
and have fun. Is all this necessary?"
Area Governor: "Well, let me tell you …(The Area Governor
gets cut off by the angry VPM)
VPM: "I don't mean to be disrespectful, but we only have an
hour for this Club meeting. You people from the District can't just march
into our club meeting and fire questions at us."
President: "Hold it, everyone."
It's too late. This meeting is lost.
SKIT #2: Able Abe
Featuring Area Governor #2
Actors needed:
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Area Governor
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Club President
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Narrator
Several days Before the Club Meeting,
the Area Governor telephones the Club President.
Club President: "Hello."
Area Governor: "Hi, _________ (insert first name of actor who
is portraying the President)! This is your Area Governor,
____________________ (insert full name of actor). I'd like to visit your
Club meeting to introduce myself. I understand you meet every Wednesday at
noon. May I visit your Club this Wednesday?"
Club President: "Yes. We'd love to have you. Do I need to do
anything special?"
Area Governor: "No. Just introduce me to the Club. I have some
paperwork to take care of. We can talk about it when we meet."
…Before the meeting begins:
The Area Governor meets the Club President. They chat. The Area
Governor shows the President the Area Governor Club Visit Report form. But
the President doesn't have enough time to provide all the answers.
…At the meeting:
The Club President introduces the Area Governor to the members. After the
meeting, the Area Governor meets with the Club President and the VPE to
get the Club Visit report Form filled out.
SKIT #3: Marvelous Marv
Featuring Area Governor #3
Actor's needed:
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Club President
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Area Governor
One month before the Club visit, the
Area Governor telephones the Club President.
Club President: "Hello."
Area Governor: "Hi _______________ (insert first name of actor
who is portraying the Club President)! This is your Area Governor
___________________ (insert full name of actor). I'm calling because I'd
like to visit your Club, introduce myself, and get to know you and your
fellow Club members.
President: "That's great. It's been a long time since we had a
visit by an Area Governor. By the way, are we supposed to do anything
special?
Area Governor: "You are not supposed to do anything special,
but I would like to be given 5-7 minutes to make some remarks to your Club
members. Also, in order for the District Governor to know how your Club is
doing and to know how we can be most helpful to you, I will need some
information about your Club. In fact, I'd like to meet with your Executive
Committee for about 10 minutes after the meeting. In preparation for that,
I'd like to fax a copy of my Area Governor's Club Visit Report form to you
as soon as possible. This is so that you and your fellow Club Officers can
collect the information for me before I attend your meeting. That will
make things easier for all of us!"
Club President: "That sounds good to me. Here's my fax number:
123-4567. When would you like to visit us?"
Area Governor: "In about a month; how about ___________
(mentions date)? That way, your VPE can fit me into the program. Also, I'd
like to meet as many of your members as possible. You might want to make
the occasion of my visit a reason to try to get every single member to
attend the meeting!"
Club President: "Hey, now you are giving me ideas! Let's plan
on you visiting my Club on _____________ (date). We can promote the
meeting as "Meet Your Area Governor" night!"
Area Governor: " __________________ (fill in first name of
actor who is portraying the
Club President), I'm really looking forward to meeting you, your fellow
Club Officers, and the rest of your Club members. I'll give you a call as
we get closer to that date."
Prior to the Start of the Club meeting:
The Area Governor arrives early. The Area Governor is dressed well and has
the Toastmaster pin and badge on. The President and the Sergeant-at-Arms
greet him/her.
The President introduces the Area Governor to the rest of the Executive
Committee and other members as they arrive. The Area Governor chats and
makes contact with many of the members.
At the Club meeting:
After all the prepared speeches, table topics, and evaluations are done,
the Club President introduces the Area Governor to make some remarks to
the members.
The Area Governor speaks very encouragingly to the members. He/she
mentions the things that were done right at the meeting. He/she talks
about the vital mission of the Club and it's important role in serving
members. He/she mentions the International theme and the District
Governor's theme. He/she congratulates the members who earned an
educational award and encourages the Club to go for Distinguished and
beyond using the Distinguished Club Plan.
By the time the Area Governor concludes the speech, staying within the
time allotted for the presentation, the Club members are proud to be
Toastmasters and want to build an even stronger Club.
Immediately after the meeting:
The Club President rounds up the Executive Committee members and meets
with the Area Governor. They go over the information needed to complete
the Area Governor's Club Visit Report form. The Club Officers also give
inside scoop on the strengths and weaknesses of the Club. The Area
Governor asks questions, listens carefully, makes notes when necessary,
and offers encouragement.
The Area Governor sends a thank you note to the Club President for the
warm hospitality the Club showed to him/her and the cooperation that
he/she received.
The Area Governor also signs the Club Visit Report form, makes a copy for
his/her files, and mails the original to the District Governor.
To make this really effective, immediately after the 3 skits have been
completed, ask everyone searching questions. As far as possible, let THEM
come up with the answers.
Sample questions:
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List every thing wrong with the Club
visit in Skit #1 and describe how each wrong act or word spoken could
be corrected.
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What makes the Club visit in Skit #3 so
successful? Describe the reason behind each thing the Area Governor
did.
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What happens when the Executive
Committee cannot meet with the Area Governor immediately after the
meeting because their meeting is held during the lunch hour at their
company and everyone has to get back to work? Can we be flexible? What
are alternate ways of doing an A+ Club visit?
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What are some ways that Area Governor
#2 can improve his/her Club visit?
Bounce
Back from Burnout
Dilip R. Abayasekara, DTM, AS
Around April and May of every year I often hear from Toastmaster leaders
that they feel burned out, tired, or 'stale.' I'm not surprised, because I
remember having some of those same feelings when I was serving as a Top
Three Officer. Can you bounce back from being burned out, you ask?
Absolutely! Here are some ways that you may be able to get back that
spring in your step.
Identify what is Causing Most of the 'Burned Out' Feeling
Burn out occurs when you have a high degree of stress with no relief
for an extended period of time. If you can identify what's causing all or
most of the stress, then you can figure out an action plan to decrease or
at least manage the stress. Here are some common stress creators for
Toastmaster leaders: (1) unresolved conflict in the person's team; (2)
increased work loads at the job decreasing the time they have available to
attend to the District's needs; (3) marital difficulties; (4) working very
hard month after month to meet the District's goals, but not having much
to show for it; (5) criticism of the leader by key people in the District;
(6) trying to please everybody; (7) working very hard over an extended
period without getting adequate rest; and (8) lack of balance in the
person's life style for a long period of time.
Take Specific, Direct Actions to Relieve the Stress
Don't beat around the bush. If you want to bounce back from burn out,
you've got to be bold! One very successful District leader told me that
when she spotted those burn out signs, she made arrangements for District
functions to be handled by reliable people and went on a week's vacation
where she was away from telephones and meetings. My wife and I made it a
rule that when our family was at dinner, neither our children nor we would
answer the telephone. Some leadership teams that have had conflict have
gone so far as to get a knowledgeable mediator to work with them. If the
cause of the stress is lack of balance in your life, then reassess the way
you spend your time, what your priorities should be in order to regain the
balance you need, and then make it happen!
Here are some examples of positive actions you can take:
Lack of exercise: make
appointments with yourself to go to the local exercise Club on specific
days at specific times to exercise. If someone tries to book you for that
time period, check your day planner and say, "Sorry, I already have
an engagement at that time."
Not spending enough time with your
spouse: Arrange to meet your spouse for lunch
during the week. Arrange for a babysitter and go out on a biweekly date.
Working very hard for the District but
little to no progress being made: You might be
working very hard at the wrong things. Go back to basics. Study the
District mission statement if you are a District Officer. Study the Club
mission statement if you are a Club Officer. Focus only on things that
will directly have ramifications on the critical success factors for your
office. Consult other knowledgeable and successful Toastmaster leaders.
Trying to please everybody: That's
a no-win situation. People who tend to do this have low self-confidence
and self esteem. Get help from a counselor if necessary. Realize that you
are a person of worth and have much to offer. Be grateful for those who
help you and also be grateful for those who give you a hard time because
they are making you reassess many false assumptions you are laboring
under. Focus on getting the job done in the right way and forget the
popularity contest.
Trust The Higher Power of the Universe
The higher power in my universe is God. Whatever your religion and
whatever your acknowledged higher power, make room for spiritual growth
and peace in your heart. We human beings have a body, mind, and spirit. If
we are too busy to pay attention to matters of the spirit, then we are too
busy. Take time to mediate or pray. If you can do neither, sit comfortably
in a place where you will not be disturbed, close your eyes, and breathe
deeply, putting your full attention on each breath, as it enters you
through your nose and exits you through your nose. Let all other thoughts
fall away gently from your mind. Discover the healing balm of silence.
Reduce the Clutter
Simplify your life so that you are attending to your priorities first.
Reduce distractions. Look at your daily planner, or personal digital
assistant, or calendar where you record all your appointments. Ask
yourself what you can cut out so that you have more 'white space' in your
life.
Take Time to Play
Don't take yourself so seriously. When is the last time you had a good
belly laugh? Do you have a hobby that is different from your work or
Toastmasters activities? If so, spend a little time each week on that
hobby or interest. You will be able to return to your Toastmasters work
with a new zest.
Commit to the Bounce
General George Patton, who barely passed from West Point but later
went on to become one of the Second World War's most successful field
commanders said, "Success in life is not determined by how high you
rise but how high you bounce back from adversity."
Like General Patton, make a decision that your bounce back from burn out
is for the long run. Stick to the changes you make in your life. You will
wonder how you lived any other way. Good luck. Bounce high!
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